He continually makes degrading remarks and this displays his utter disrespect that he has for her. Majority of his cruel taunts are about her physical appearance and how she has failed in life as an actress. He describes her hands as hard as dogs pads. Implying that she could never be an actress because she wasnt glamorous enough and was never going to be the kind of lady who wore red paint and diamond rings. It would be fair to say that he finds the physical appearance of his wife disappointing. This idea is reinforced when he negatively comments about her uncombed hair. This remark about her appearance displays his misogynistic behaviour. His cynical and negative remarks reveal the narrators inner thoughts, that his wife is the problem. She has let herself go and is therefore no longer pretty. His pessimistic attitude towards immediately objectifies her, as if she was a toy he no longer wanted. My assumption would be that this man was having a midlife crisis and wanted a younger, pretty and glamorous woman. His jealousy and his repulsion towards his wife is shown through the quote, some pretty girl and her young husband. He is in denial about his age, but also the overall appearance of his wife. His behaviour towards his wife reflects our current society and the societal pressure on females to look good.
His expectation of how his wife should look and behave draws a parallel to the expectation of how the media portrays the perfect women. This pressure and false sense of perfection, allows males to have a deluded expectation of how women should look. A Lucerne field brilliant as window dressers grass, seems like the perfect location for rekindling a dying romance. The farm was brought as escape from the busy bustling city life Johannesburg. The narrator and his wife were both convinced that the farms would change something within themselves. They collectively viewed the farm as fresh start. The narrator was praying to hear a deep satisfying silence, hoping that the arguing would stop. The farm started out as a symbol or peace and serenity; however it didnt manage to help the bickering couples problems. The narrator doesnt enjoy the farm, and spends only evening and weekends at the farm. He avoids parts of the farm because it sickens him. He likes the calm life of living in the country and being away from the tension within the city, yet he views the farm as a financial burden.
The narrator begins to describe a bull, little, stocky mean-eyed bull, lustful but bored. This description of the bull draws a parallel to the narrator, how he is lustful for something pretty which is wife can never omit to and hes bored with what he has. He expected his wife to settle down into Chekhovian sadness than pursue her dream of being an actress. However she became encapsulated with the farm and the narrator finds her earthy enthusiasms irritating. He wants her to be a lady whom he can show off, eye candy. Yet she continues to disappoint him, and the farm becomes a symbol or regret to the narrator. Their view of buying something in order to solve their problems and then not being satisfied links us back to our consumerism society. How we are constantly seeking instant gratification, as a constellation prize for our problems. However we forget the common phrase, Money cant buy you happiness. Unexpected circumstances can define a relationship, either bringing people closer or destroying any remnants of a relationship. The narrator employs servants from Rhodesia in order to look after his farm; however he does not accept them as his workers and calls them Lerices farm boys. We learn throughout this short story that the narrator is an extremely racist man. This is shown through his condescending attitude towards his workers poor devils have nothing much to fear. He finds his wife and the farm boys equally irritating.
A defining factor within their marriage is when one of the farm boys illegal immigrant brother, dies of phenomena. This event displays the contrast in personalities and moral code of the narrator and his wife. The narrator disregards the boys death, shows his lack of ethics and morals. In contrast to his dehumanized ways, his wife on the other hand is extremely compassionate towards the poor boy and his family. The narrator immediately calls the authority and this begins a series of small arguments between him and his wife. First off he sleeps in another room, and she is hurt and humiliated at him for not wanting her. However she begins to whine and whinge, when he doesnt tell Petrus that he cannot have his brothers body back to bury. Then she gives him the silent treatment, and he makes a very snide remark about how she is the kind of woman who doesnt mind if she looks plain, or odd. The narrator feels pressured, because he has to deal with all the dirty business despite it not being his fault. He consistently reminds his wife that its not his problem to get the body back, and he does not owe his workers anything. His wife continues to pursue him, and eventually he agrees to get the body back.
His lack of compassion is expressed when he doesnt offer to pay a measly 20 pounds, which he could easily cover. He instead criticizes the farm boys and servants for wasting their lives savings on a dead body. At this point the wife has given up arguing with her husband, and begins to slowly fade out of his life. This moment of tension, displays the dynamics of their deterioting relationship, and how certain events can either bring people closer or cause further tension. The narrator defines himself as being superior to his wife and the farm boys. This concept relates back to Nadine Gordimers theme of racism and sex prejudice within South Africa. The narrator is disconnected from his emotions and morals, especially when one of the Servants brothers dies. In this moment we see the contrast in characters between the wife and the husband and how neither appreciate nor like each other. Both of them are trapped in a monotonous relationship and both of them regret marrying each other. It would appear that their relationship and foundation for their marriage was not built off respect for one another, and that is why everything that was running smooth didnt last very long.a