It shows not only negative stereotype will be harmful to people but also positive stereotype will cause harmful to people. Some writer make positive and negative on their essay. In I Want a Wife, Judy Brady is a female who stands on a male view about getting a wife. She discuss about what kinds of wife a male would want to get. She mentions I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs, I want a wife who will take care of the details of my social life, and I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs. (P. 37) She thinks male usually make both positive and negative stereotype about female.
In this essay, male think a female has to care everything about his husband, take care of the children, and stay home cleaning. In fact, females are getting more independents today. They want to get money by themselves and dont want to stay home take care of everything. Even though it is positive stereotype about a female who can take care of everything that happens at home, but it is still making negative stereotype about a female cant work other than staying home. This will cause harmful to a female who is going to marry a person that stereotype female like the writer did.
Another writer that writes essay about stereotype is Brent staples. He writes about his experiences of racism or stereotype in Black Men and Public Space. He mentions At dark, shadowy intersection, I could cross in front of a car stopped at a traffic light and elicit the thunk, thunk, thunk, thunk of the driver-black, white, male, or female- hammering down the door locks. (P. 2) This is showing people stereotype about the writer. They think he may take their car or do something bad to them, so they lock the door locks.
Another time is One day, rushing into the office of a magazine I was writing for with a deadline story in hand, I was mistaken for a burglar. The office manager called security and, with an ad hoc posse, pursued me through the labyrinthine halls, nearly to my editors door. (P. 3) The office manager has stereotype the writer as a burglar even though he is working at the office of a magazine. This might make the writer feel harmful, because people make negative stereotype about him as a bad person, like a burglar. There is a stereotype called cultural stereotype.
Judith Ortiz Cofer writes an essay called The Myth of the Latin woman which is about cultural stereotype. This essay is about a Latin girl facing different culture people. She remembers what happens to her at her first dance. I remember the boy who took me to my first formal dance leaning over to plant a sloppy, over-eager kiss painfully on my mouth; when I didnt respond with sufficient passion, he remarked resentfully: I thought you Latin girls were supposed to mature early, (P. 106) The boy mentions about Latin girls were suppose to mature early, which shows this boy is making a positive cultural stereotyping about the writer.
In fact, the writer didnt grow into womanhood yet and this might cause harm to the writers heart. I Want a Wife, Black Men and Public Space and The Myth of the Latin Woman had proved example of both positive and negative stereotype. Some people think it is fine to make positive stereotype about other people. In fact, these three essays had proved that not only negative stereotype will cause harmful to people, but also positive stereotype will cause harmful to people. Hopefully, people will stop causing harmful to other people by stop stereotyping about other.